Respect her .........

Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry her with these facts as well.

Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are; 

Who is earning almost as much as you do; 

One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements 

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life; 

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family ,name 

One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen 

One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;

One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities; 

Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply Because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise 

One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met; 

One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important, relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her; 

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

But not many guys understand this...... Please appreciate "HER" ...

Just cant let her go.................

For months, I've played this game

Acting like it doesn't hurt

Each time I hear her name, 

...Ignoring what's inside of me 

Pretending I've moved on 

As if the feelings I once had 

For him are somehow gone, 

Spending each and every day 

With happiness and laughs 

Forgetting all our memories 

Avoiding photographs, 

But last night when I saw her in my dreams, 

For the first time since she left 

My heart stopped for a moment 

I couldn't catch my breath, 

When suddenly it hit me 

As the tears started to flow 

That even after all this time 

I just can't let her go !!!

इस रात के आँचल से .....

इस रात के आँचल से एक तारा तोड़ के लाओ न ,

फिर आकर मेरे पास मेरे दामन पे उससे सजाओ न ..

एक अरसे से यह आँखें सोयी नहीं है , तुम आकर मुझे सुलाओ न ..

वो आवाज़ सुनने को तरस गया है दिल , तुम कहानी कोई सुनाओ न …

इस रात से भी गहरी मेरी तन्हाई हो गयी है , आ जाओ कभी , सीने से मुझे लगाओ न … 

सुनकर जिससे मैं ख्यालों में खो जाया करता था , आज फिरसे वही धुन गुनगुनाओ न …

कभी भीगना चाहूँ बारिश में ,कभी छूना चाहूँ फलक को , मेरी मासूम तमन्नाओ को अपनी चाहत बनाओ न …

और कितना इंतज़ार बाकी है मेरी किस्मत में , अब तो मुझ से मिलने आओ न …

कुछ अपनी कहो कुछ मेरी सुनो , कभी मुझसे रूठो, कभी मुझे 

मनाओ न …

कोई खता हो गयी है तो मुझे माफ़ कर दो ,इस तरह बेरुखी से 

मुझसे नज़रें फिराओ न …

क्या है दिल में तुम्हारे एक बार कह दो , पर इस तरह चुपचाप मेरी 

ज़िन्दगी से जाओ न …

कोई गम है तो दे दो मुझे , तुम मेरी ख़ुशी ले लो , पर मेरी खातिर 

तुम एक दफा मुस्कुरा दो न ..!!